We come from different spanking worlds, but we share a very similar headspace. Through talking about our experiences, and where we hoped the spanking scene in NYC would go, we decided to create this group so that others who shared our desires would have a place to call home.  We came together with the help of many of our likeminded scene friends to form SSNY.  Our board members consist of experienced Tops and naughty bottoms all of whom enjoy good old fashioned, over the knee, discipline spanking! 

Our parties will only be attended by people approved by our operating board because we want to ensure a safe and respectful party environment for everyone to enjoy themselves within.   We are not trying to make a profit from this venture and therefore don’t need to attract anyone that we don’t know and trust to our parties. 

We are always looking to add to our membership so please come and join us.  Our goal is to promote a safe, sane, fun environment. We encourage our members to get to know one another in our chat room and on our boards.  Getting to know people and building friendships before venturing out to a party is important.  Our board members are available to answer any questions or concerns you might have so please feel free to contact them via their SSNY email address.  

We look forward to getting to know everyone! 

It all began years ago on a cold and wintery night in a small hospital outside of …………just kidding.  Although I must admit that spanking has been on my brain since I was very young.  I always say that people either have the gene or they don’t.  I have the gene.  One of my earliest memories is sitting in front of the television at about 5 years of age mesmerized and completely jealous of the cute little blonde chick in Blue Hawaii who got spanked by Elvis.  I wanted to be her.  To the world he was the King of Rock-n-Roll.  To me he was a hell of a top!  From that point on my television became my best friend.  Old movies and television shows were of interest to me because spanking was a regular occurrence.  Westerns!  I loved westerns!  Someone always got spanked in a western.  I loved watching old episodes of Gunsmoke and Bonanza.   I'll never forget Adam spanking the women who tried to smash his guitar, or Ben spanking the little indian girl.  Whenever there was a Bonanza marathon scheduled I would fake an asthma attack so I could stay home from school.  I fantasized about being a Cartwright.  I wanted to be Juliette Cartwright.  I always craved a parental type discipline from a strict but loving father figure or a cowboy .  Nothing has changed.

As time went on my little secret became more and more shameful.  Up until fairly recently I couldn’t even say the word.  I did all the typical spanko things: collected mainstream movies with spanking in them, looked up the word in the dictionary, got red faced at the mention of it etc…I truly believed that I was alone in my thoughts and was a total freak.  I had no idea that there was an entire community of people out there who shared my desire.  I lived with my little secret for a long time, until three years ago when I ventured out into the spanking world.

My first spanking experience was quite comical looking back on it.  I went out to Paddles to celebrate my friends 30^th birthday. I ended up getting spanked in a dog cage, with a dog bowl under my chin! It wasn’t quite what I had in mind when I envisioned my first spanking, but it was better than nothing.  It gave me the taste.  After that night I was liberated.  I joined a local spanking group and I stayed there for almost 3 years.  I learned a lot about myself during that time and I wouldn’t trade that experience for the world.  I learned  to communicate effectively, realized my likes and dislikes, what I was looking for in a play partner,  how to express my wants and needs, and how to navigate my way through the spanking community.  It gave me the courage to venture out to other parties and groups in CA,Vegas, and most recently Florida where I met the most wonderful people and expanded my network of friends.  Everywhere I went there were friendly, welcoming, generous people to help me feel safe on my journey.  I'll always remember that and will make it a point to assist others in the scene by helping them feel safe, answering all their questions and offering advice.  Taking that first step can be hard, but having someone to guide you and reassure you along the way is comforting.  I am looking forward to all the new experiences that SSNY will bring me, and all the special people I will meet along the way.  I hope to continue to learn and grow, and most importantly HAVE FUN!       

A little about Mike....